Please Advice Me: My Guy Lasts For Only 2 Minutes

Please Advice Me: My Guy Lasts For Only 2 Minutes

This 2 minutes is even an overstatement and this is seriously affecting our se.x.ual relationship. It has diminished his ego and as for me, I don’t ever wish to have it with him again, honestly, It is not only embarrassing but also this is frustrating.

But i feel like surprising him on his birthday. So I’m wondering if there is anything i can add to his drink; drug, herbs without his knowledge to enable him last longer to his amazement and making him feel it’s natural. 

Or is there an ointment/cream I can use to massage him?? I need to spice our marriage se.xually and bedically, Pls Help me suggest what to do to him.